Dressed For Success

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Dressing up is not just for Halloween. People dress up for church, work or special occasions. Students dress up for career day at school to represent their desired future occupation. As youngsters, we would dress in costumes, but there are also adult costume parties. Wearing a costume can allow us to be someone we are not. For a brief period we’re a superhero, doctor, construction worker, pilot or police officer. When the outfit comes off, though, it’s back to reality.

Coming outside in costume is not necessarily a bad thing. I could be having a very difficult day, but put on my best clothes to project positivity and improve my mood. You could be without a dollar in your pocket, but look like a million bucks. There may be times when we can’t afford to dress how we would like, but we do the best we can. No matter our age, our clothing says a lot about us. Our appearance can make the difference between acceptance or rejection; success or failure.

When we come into the world, someone else dresses us. As we get older, we learn to dress ourselves. If we live long enough, someone else will likely dress us. After we die, someone dresses us. When other people dress us, we may not like what they pick out for us. Undoubtedly, every parent has had resistance from a child over what he or she selected for them to wear. I have seen photos of myself as a young boy that have me wondering what my parents were thinking when they chose those outfits.

However, God dresses His children in the garment of praise in exchange for the spirit of heaviness. (Isaiah 61:3) His wardrobe is tailor-made for each one of us. It doesn’t matter if you’re a size 4 or 24; XS or 3XL. He has a walk-in closet, but you won’t walk out the same way you walked in. Isaiah 61:10 states, “For He hath clothed me with the garments of salvation.” He has taken away my filthy rags and exchanged them for clothes of liberty, deliverance and safety. I can take the tags off, because I never have to return the items.

Clothes are a covering and a form of protection. As long as we have God’s covering, we can’t lose. We’re dressed for success. His clothing for us is permanent and never wears out. It never goes out of style. The fabric doesn’t get shiny from wear. The colors don’t fade. Moths don’t eat it.

“[He] arrayed me in a robe of righteousness.” (v. 10b) A robe speaks of royalty, as worn by kings and queens. God wants to display His righteousness for the world to see. Have yourself a fashion show to showcase God’s handiwork!

Please Throw In The Towel

There are many phrases we use regularly that I believe we misunderstand the meaning of. One such phrase is “throwing in the towel”. This phrase is common in our culture and music. We’re usually told not to throw in the towel. Throwing in the towel is presumed to be a negative thing—something to avoid at all costs. It’s believed to mean you’re giving up. People encourage us to not give up for any reason or under any circumstance.

I’m not suggesting we should give up or quit, I’m just suggesting we use a different metaphor. The term throwing in the towel comes from the sport of boxing. When a boxer is losing badly and his corner feels he can’t go on, they will throw in the towel as a signal for the referee to stop the fight.

The referee is supposed to know when a fight should be stopped, but they are not always aware. Sometimes the people who are supposed to protect you will let you get killed. We all need a “corner” to look out for us. I’m grateful for friends and family in my corner who come to my rescue when I can’t do anything for myself. A boxer can’t throw in the towel for himself. It has to come from the corner. A boxer doesn’t have a towel. All he has is his gloves (and they’re laced on). The act of throwing in the towel is always on behalf of someone else.

Spectators might want the fight to continue because they have money on it. They’re not concerned about what’s best for the boxer. Having a towel thrown in for you means you can live to fight another day. Throwing in the towel is an act of mercy. It means someone believes you’ve had enough. There’s nothing wrong with someone recognizing your breaking point. Every fight isn’t worth fighting. That doesn’t make you a quitter.

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Some people will stand around and watch you die. I witnessed the aftermath of a bad car accident in which one of the cars was flipped on its roof. Instead of calling 911 or helping the victims, people started pulling out their cell phones and taking pictures and videos I presume to share on social media. I contend that we need more towel-throwers. We have enough shade-throwers. How about we raise up some more towel-throwers?

Jeremiah 38 tells the story of a man named Ebed-Melech who “threw in the towel” to save the life of the prophet Jeremiah. We can learn a great deal from his example as we look out for others. We may never know the impact of the lives we touch because we throw in the towel. The next time someone tells you not to throw in the towel, tell them, “I’m sorry, but I have to. There’s somebody who needs me. They’re in the fight of their life, and if I don’t, they may die.”

More Featured Authors

I continue to meet many inspiring Christian authors. Here are four more authors and their books:

Amanda Stephan – The Price of Trust

Carly Richards is on the run. For the last two years, she’s skipped from town to town, ducking her dangerous and well-informed ex-fiance every few weeks, never settling anywhere for long. With the death of her parents, Carly’s vulnerability made her trust a man with an attractive facade. Now that same man has tracked her across the country, always nipping at her heels, preventing her from reaching out to anyone other than her God. Now she’s in Montana, and surely that is far enough away from Texas and her abusive past that she can rest. But her emotional scars are reluctant to heal, and Carly resists the friendliness of those in the small town she lights upon, especially handsome farmer Joe Baird. Without a car and money though, she has little choice but to dig in and begin building back up her savings so she can run once more.

Caught in the circumstances, the kind people around her begin to creep into her softening heart. God is at work, and she has to trust him to not only take care of her, but care for the the people she is learning to love. Carly must learn the Price of Trust.

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Gail Dudley – Ready To Pray

In her latest book, Ready To Pray, Gail Dudley shares the life lessons that the Lord has poured into her life through her spiritual journey with Him. Whether these were seasons of joy, seasons of sorrow, seasons of want or seasons of plenty, the Lord has been working in Gail’s life for many years, teaching her the disciplines of prayer and the power that comes through the life of someone who is obedient to calling on Him during all of life’s challenges.
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Maurice Huff – The Choice That No Longer Haunts

The Choice That No Longer Haunts is about a young boy who is given permission by the Creator to come to Earth and confront the father who made the CHOICE to have an abortion. This narrative captures the imagination of the reader and culminates in the reality of God’s grace, and loving forgiveness. As a bonus, the story is told from a male’s perspective.

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Teresa Ann Winton – Pieces of the Pearl: Memoirs of a Foster Child’s Triumphant Transformation

This book tells the true-life story of Teresa Ann Winton, who invites you to journey into the depths of her soul where a vulnerable and profoundly sad little girl once lived. Teresa’s unstable home left her exposed to abuse, poverty, and neglect. Foster care, a system meant to help the helpless, brought even more trauma and loss. But in spite of it all, Teresa forged ahead, refusing to succumb to despair.

In this poignant story, the author interlaces poetry and narrative, sharing her joys and sorrows, her triumphs and tears.

A second book, Tears in the Lilies, is due to release in spring 2011.
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